Title: How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk Authors: Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish Category:books Number of Highlights: 3 Date: 2022-07-17 Last Highlighted: 2021-03-16


by listening with full attention, by acknowledging his feelings with a word, by giving a name to his feelings, and by granting him his wishes in fantasy. (267)

Resist the temptation to “make better” instantly. Instead of giving advice, continue to accept and reflect on your child’s feelings. (305)


What people of all ages can use in a moment of distress is not agreement or disagreement; they need someone to recognize what it is they’re experiencing. (415)